Symbiosis. A psychological
state where contents of one's
personal unconscious are experienced
in another person. (See also
projection and soul-image.)
Symbiosis manifests in unconscious
interpersonal bonds, easily
established and difficult to break.
Jung gave an example in terms of
introversion and extraversion. Where
one of these attitudes is dominant,
the other, being unconscious, is
automatically projected.
Either type has a predilection
to marry its opposite, each
being unconsciously
complementary to the other. . .
. The one takes care of
reflection and the other sees to
the initiative and practical
action. When the two types
marry, they may effect an ideal
union. So long as they are fully
occupied with their adaptation
to the manifold external needs
of life they fit together
admirably.["The Problem of the
Attitude-Type," CW 7, par. 80.]
Problems in such relationships
typically surface only later in
life, accompanied by strong affect.
When the man has made enough
money, or if a fine legacy
should drop from the skies and
external necessity no longer
presses, then they have time to
occupy themselves with one
another. Hitherto they stood
back to back and defended
themselves against necessity.
But now they turn face to face
and look for understanding-only
to discover that they have never
understood one another. Each
speaks a different language.
Then the conflict between the
two types begins. This struggle
is envenomed, brutal, full of
mutual depreciation, even when
conducted quietly and in the
greatest intimacy. For the value
of the one is the negation of
value for the other.[Ibid.]
The ending of a symbiotic
relationship often precipitates an
outbreak of neurosis, stimulated by
an inner need to assimilate those
aspects of oneself that were
projected onto the partner. |